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时间过得真快，一眨眼就四十了，也真没想到四十的我怀孕了。这对于双方的家庭来说无疑是件好事，但好事之后就是如何照料腹中胎儿。

这就不由我想起15年前的那个经历，我的第一次剖腹产经历，几几年我自己都记不得了，因为我这人不会去记忆痛苦的经历，只会注重现在和将来。但是为了现在在孕的妈妈，所以我来揭下伤疤吧！

话说那年我好像是24岁吧，或许还年轻的，当时意外得知怀孕了，其实那时候的我自己还是一个孩子，啥都不懂就稀里糊涂地怀孕了。当然那个时候条件也没有现在的好，哪里有科学进餐，只要吃饱吃好，也没当一回事，定产检医院也没多想，图个方便找了家里最近的区级妇产科医院，在这里我也不提他家的姓名，现在想来实在是太差劲了，所以我还是提醒妈妈们选医院很重要。

大概在7个月产检的时候，医生说胎盘老化，这个医学名称对我来说简直就是天方夜谭，当时哪里里有现在科学发达，我记得手机都没有，只有大哥大，电脑也少得出奇，犹如极品。所以我也就稀里糊涂地听医生的话住进了医院。现在想来什么胎盘老化，简单地说就是胎儿生长缓慢，这只是B超显示，数据还有上下误差的呢。

住进医院后，医院的伙食又差，哪是孕妇吃的，整天不是吊那个水和这个水，反正就是听医生的。如果放在今天的我，就不会听任摆布，我自己会分析权重的。记得去年我同事怀孕，后来医生说胎儿发育缓慢，住进了医院，整天泪流满面，后来她打电话给我，我安慰她说，心情最主要的，我当时B超做出来不也是说小，每次都小1周，最后不也是超过6斤吗，关键你要多吃对宝宝有益的食品，心情愉悦是关键，不要完全听医生的，医生是往最坏的地方去想，那是保守疗法，她听了我的话一下子开朗好多，结果顺利产下一个6斤的女儿。

也就是这样我在医院将近住了1个月不到，整天在病房里听这个难产，那个这么了等等，心情哪会好，根本就不利宝宝的成长。医生说腹中胎儿要剖腹产，怕腹中胎儿坏死。我也就听医生的话提前一个月不得已进行了剖腹产，产下一个早产儿4.7斤的男童，哭声响亮，当时主刀医生还说了句：哇，哭声这么响啊！不过因为体重未超过5斤得放暖箱一段时间，而我先出院，宝宝未到预产期（离预产期还有15天左右）就通知我们去医院接宝宝，对于我们期盼宝宝心切哪里懂那么多。后来，人家说暖箱这么也得放到预产期，这样宝宝的抵抗力就强，放一天就等于放妈妈肚中一天，人家2斤多的不也存活的好好的吗，关键放暖箱。

回到家中的宝宝确实招人喜欢，特别漂亮，眼睛大大的，头发又黑又长，眼睫毛也长，对着你乐乐地，但是不到15天开始不吃奶，于是我们就到出生的产院去看，那个医生居然对我说宝宝饿了自然会吃，也就听了那个不负责的医生的话我们回家了，真是有这等庸医啊，到第四天我们觉得不对啊，再去看就来不及了，毕竟孩子小，就这样离开了人间，那段日子对我来说简直是伤心透顶，不过我总算熬过去了。

时间过得真快，15年过去了，我将面临第二次剖腹产，有很多人建议我使用止痛棒，我左思右想后来还是没用。这个止痛棒从脊椎处打入，就算止疼也是止伤口的疼，子宫收缩没有作用的。尽管我很怕疼，尽管我有过剖腹产的经历，但想想也是后怕，当时打麻药的医生还讽刺我说：你这么怕疼，不打止疼棒要疼死你的。我心想：我也知道的，但对大脑有副作用的，我绝度不打，我能熬过那段时间的。

确实，产后麻药过后伤口的疼痛和子宫收缩的疼痛让我疼了两天两夜，加上第一个屁始终放不出来，肠子的疼痛，让我哇哇叫，下地走动和其他产妇闲聊，人家说：不知哪个包间的产妇前两天在疼得叫，我回答说：那就是我啊！现在想来我也熬过去了，儿子现在马上要1岁4个月了。

所以，我在这里提醒在孕的妈妈，我的建议还是：如果你能够自己生，尽量自己生。顺产肯定是比剖腹产好的，经常会看到某某明星要剖腹，身边的人不凡有年亲孕妇剖腹产的。两者的区别是，顺产前者痛苦些，但是产后无论对于产妇还是婴儿都是有利的。再说如果赶时髦的妈妈你想穿比基尼，想想肚子上一条刀疤，不过现在是横刀应该高一点的比基尼看不到刀疤的。

好了，我不多说了，祝所有准妈妈都能顺产！

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辛苦地妈妈

石榴妈妈

真是体质不一样呀

我在五院生的，没止痛泵。我真没觉着特别疼，刀口的痛完全能承受，宫缩疼，我是一点儿也没感觉到，六个小时后，我自己翻的身，24小时，我自己就下床了。回到家，我连家务都开始做了。就是导尿管的痛，让我无法承受，呵呵。

PS：平时，我对痛疼的耐受度特别差，去按摩理疗，我一直不停让人家轻点轻点。

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回复 石榴妈妈@zz 的帖子

好厉害啊！！

原来你也对我

刚刚在**上看到的帖子，呃~好吓人的剖腹产！

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